Your article sounds like an orgy of misandry. Not saying it isn't true, just a little exaggerated. We have developed this herd mentality, men are like this, women are like that. Unfortunately if we follow the herd we miss out on the good stuff.

Good men aren't well behaved women we are men. The sexes are complementary, as a couple we fill needs that we don't have ourselves by working together. Mutual respect is the key.

Men do look at sex differently because the sex act is meant to impress women. We are trying to get noticed for our virility. We are communicating if you want to listen.

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Finally, It doesn't serve any good purpose to bring ex-president(s) or the current governor of New York into the bedroom. People do a lot of stupid stuff, that doesn't mean it should affect your relationship.

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