You want this in a man...
Proper financial education related to budgeting and saving money.
Yet you admit to having 1/4 to 1/2 of your income tied up in 15-25% credit card debt. I am assuming it's high interest it may not be. You don't need a man, you need a man to bail you out of debt.
Let's take that out of the equation. All you have discussed is finding a man with good financial prospects and a man to treat you as an equal. Women want to know about a man's future, men want to know about a women's past. In your article, you express no desire for a man other than for financial support. Men have more to offer other than finances. I am afraid you really are a gold digger and any halfway intelligent man will notice that. That's not meant as an insult, it's just how you describe yourself. As a woman you can always get a date but unless you change you won't get a full time man. I appreciate your honestly.