Women have spent centuries constantly moderating themselves to avoid notice, not speaking out of turn, not wearing revealing clothes

I don't know what world you live, but I have never lived in a world where women held back on giving you their opinion about anything whether you wanted to hear it or not. As you know the big complaint about men is that they aren't "able" to share their feeling. Men don't really think their feeling are important especially in the workplace. Working with mostly women would be like ice skating on a Maine lake in late April. The ice looks solid until hit a thin patch and end up drowning.