To start with jokes about male mutilation aren't funny. Treating men like they are Neanderthals isn't funny either. And men don't need to be enlightened to adopt some set of theoretical set of behaviors. Relationships between men and women are really suffering because of these unrealistic expectations dictated by neofeminism. I know feminists consider they have made progress towards equality and they have. But like most movements in history feminism has gone too far. It's made relationships between men and women as you love to say "toxic". Successful women over 40 especially who have embraced the feminist dogma are destined to a life with a cat box and wine box. No "high value" man would put up with that crap. So these women end up alone at night texting their girlfriends about how immature and awful men are. A circle of misery.
I know you are angry but I am not some angry man. I am just an observer of the zeitgeist. Feminism doesn't affect me one way or another. But these women who think men are stupid brutes and need to be trained to be well behaved women are in for a very sad and lonely life. I am sad about that too.