Thanks for exposing me to these a*holes. There is a fatal flaw to this whole concept. You only hear one side of the story, the woman’s. Women “check in" with other women to describe their side of the issue. Of course, she is the good person and the man is the typical male who takes advantage of the situation. He is invariably an abusive male who wants everything for him and gives nothing in return.

What you don’t hear is her constant complaining about God knows what. Her holding back on sex to gain control. How her girlfriends or family members validated her side of the story. Of course they did they only heard her side.

That’s the game many women play. That’s not a game anyone wins.

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