Statistically men are much more likely to be injured or killed in a crime. If a man makes an offensive remark to you, do you plan to defend yourself or just ignore it assuming all men are offensive by their nature. You’re not helpless. Most men are trying to be friendly and it comes out all wrong as crude or dumb. If you think you can do better and you want to get to know a man, you approach the man first. You will find its not that easy.