It’s refreshing to see you talk about men as multidimensional instead of single dimensional Neanderthals. You face challenges as a writer to come with accurate generalities about either sex. We are designed differently by some higher authority. We have free will bounded by the rules of the culture. Men are attracted to beauty as women are attracted to a confident man. Another generalization I fear.
Men and women change their attitude as they age. Age is another dimension to consider since most of us believe we are much nicer as we age. We are much better at knowing what we want and learn how avoid mistakes that hurt both sides. Age has it’s advantages for relationships.