It’s hard to believe in 2020 relationships are started so randomly. Both individuals have to be open to a relationship at the same time. The individuals have to be more or less in contact with each other whether in person or online. That awkward first 10-15 minutes together one on one must work and there are no second chances. And other people can’t be sidetracking you when the relationship first starts. And that’s before the discovery phase even starts.