It seems like our culture wants to attach labels to virtually every relationship between women and men. Toxic masculinity, traditional patriarchy, unfair access to the wage gap, the imagined boys club with no access to women, micro aggessions, criminal sexual behavior … Countess news stories or blogs with detailed analysis of the problem with men.
If victory over men means you are alone without companionship in most cases you don’t really get to experience that special relationship. I am not saying all men are good men. And if women want to be alone and are happy about it, that’s fine too.
Men aren’t perfect then again woman aren’t either. Every woman has stories about creepy men. But you only live once and you might as well try to make the best of it as a couple. It’s your life take charge of it.