If you are looking for a man don’t look for a well behaved woman. We don’t care about about a clean refrigerator, we don’t even notice a messy refrigerator. If you are looking for a man to respect you, start out by respecting him. If you want to impress a man show some interest in what he is interested in. Above all, don’t come in with a set of rules that he somehow needs to follow. He definitely will be looking for other options including being alone.