“I know what my worth is and I don’t expect to be mistreated”

If I may be so bold to disagree. A wise man may assume if you are so hard to please for the little things it’s a good harbinger of a future with you. If he just just put down his credit card to pay the bill would you consider that a signal he considers you incapable of paying the bill and object to that as well ?

As feminism is currently defined many 35+ women are destined to be alone with their cat and a box of wine. With girlfriends who agree with you all men suck.That is the logical future of a true feminist believer; all rules, no room for compromise. That’s sad.