Agreed there is nothing less attractive than a man , any age, without financial security.
Since we have never met, I assume you are talking about some misbehaving male(s) in the cultural narrative. Certainly we have evil men who try to take advantage of women. What I don’t understand is why some women don’t take matters into their own hands and confront the man responsible. Men have been under control of women since birth. We are fragile when confronted with a determined woman. The power is there when needed.
I get frustrated when we try to define proper gender behavior and ignore the biological incentives behind our behavior.