A woman who can handle a chainsaw is impressive.
I love this part about candy from a dish...
The saw lit up and began to purr. As Britton stared at me, I knew then and there he wanted a piece of candy from my dish.
As far as sexuality I am as clueless as the next man. As we reach out for the candy we know is ours, we don't realize somehow we broke a rule along the way and the candy is snatched back. Not blaming anybody just a little frustrated. Men's sexuality is focused, we know what we want. Women are complex even to themselves.
You should read "The Sex Diaries" by Bettina Arndt. 98 diaries from couples of various ages. Amazing how many things can go wrong between couples. And sometimes how they can get it right.